Gunther Allen: The LGBTQ+ Stories That Still Need Telling
Key Takeaways
- Author Gunther Allen draws heavily from his own diverse life experiences—including competitive water polo, music, and his involvement in the LGBTQ+ community during the HIV/AIDS crisis—to ground his fiction in authentic human emotion.
- His eBook 'Something About Martin' explores aging and companionship through an 89-year-old gay man who forms an unexpected bond with a college student, challenging the narrative that older people have reached the end of their stories.
- Allen's upcoming sci-fi novel 'Snow Clones' uses a 2050 world facing human extinction and experimental cloning to examine identity, determination, and what truly makes us who we are beyond genetics.
- The upcoming final installment of his Gay Mafia trilogy, 'A Mafia Ending,' takes characters Tito and Rico to Sicily to provide a satisfying, earned conclusion that honors both the characters and the readers.
- Preserving LGBTQ+ history through literature is vital for younger generations so they understand the struggles, chosen families, and sacrifices that built the freedoms enjoyed today.
Gunther Allen has lived through some extraordinary changes in LGBTQ+ history. He remembers a time when being openly gay could have serious consequences, when HIV/AIDS devastated communities and when life was very different for gay men growing up in the 1970s and 1980s.\n\nI really enjoyed talking to Gunther. He's done all sorts of things throughout his life, from music and competitive sport to coaching, design and supporting people affected by HIV/AIDS. And now he's writing books inspired by some of those experiences.\n\nWe talk about his latest eBook, Something About Martin, which follows an 89-year-old man dealing with the loss of his longtime partner and discovering an unexpected friendship. It's a story about ageing, companionship and the possibility of finding something new later in life.\n\nGunther also tells me about Snow Clones, his forthcoming science-fiction novel exploring cloning, artificial intelligence and human identity, and A Mafia Ending, the planned final book in his Gay Mafia trilogy.\n\nBut what particularly interested me was hearing Gunther talk about how life has changed for gay men over the decades, the importance of chosen families and why he wants younger generations to understand something of what came before them.\n\nWe also discuss his experiences in LGBTQ+ sport and his involvement in the community during the HIV/AIDS crisis.\n\nIt's an interesting conversation about books, personal experiences and why some stories are worth preserving.\n\nI hope you enjoy it.\n\nABOUT GUNTHER ALLEN\n\nGunther Allen is an American author whose books explore LGBTQ+ identity, relationships, family, ageing and belonging.\n\nHis books include Something About Martin, Coming Out in Paradise, Road Dawgs, Not Your Father's Mafia and Pushed Out of the Closet Without a Parachute.\n\nFIND GUNTHER'S BOOKS\nhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Gunther-Allen/author/B0DPML9MST\n\nWATCH THE INTERVIEW AND FIND OUT MORE\nhttps://author-conversations.com/gunther-allen\n\nAUTHOR CONVERSATIONS\nPresented by Chris Dabbs\nhttps://author-conversations.com\nhttps://www.youtube.com/@AuthorConversations"
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Frequently Asked Questions
Who is Gunther Allen?
Gunther Allen is an American author whose books explore LGBTQ+ identity, relationships, family, aging, and belonging. Before turning to writing in his retirement, he worked as a musician, international athlete, swimming coach, and designer.
What is Gunther Allen's book 'Something About Martin' about?
'Something About Martin' follows Martin Riley, an 89-year-old grieving the loss of his longtime partner, who impulsively asks a young college student named Charles to move into his spare room, sparking an unlikely intergenerational friendship.
What themes are explored in Gunther Allen's sci-fi novel 'Snow Clones'?
Set in a 2050 world facing human extinction and mass cloning, 'Snow Clones' explores human identity, the limits of DNA, and the differences between genetically engineered expectations and genuine human connection.
What are the books in the Gay Mafia trilogy?
The trilogy includes 'Not Your Father's Mafia,' its sequel 'My Big Fat Mafia Family,' and the planned final book set in Sicily, tentatively titled 'A Mafia Ending.'
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Hi and welcome to Author Conversations with me, Chris Dabbs again. And I tell you what,
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today I'm joined by someone who's had a fascinating mix of careers and experiences.
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I'm joined by Gunther Allen. Now Gunther has been a musician, an international athlete,
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a swimming coach and a designer. He's also spent years supporting the LGBTQ+ community.
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Now he's writing books that range from crime fiction to stories about identity and coming out,
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with more on the way. So Gunther, after that introduction, welcome to author conversations.
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It's lovely to have you here. Thank you. I'm glad to be here.
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Fantastic. Well, I mean, as I was saying earlier, you've worn quite a few different hats over
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the years, Gunther. I mean, when did writing begin to feel like the next chapter for you?
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Well, it came slowly. About 15 years ago, I tried to write a book and it just kept on
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hitting roadblocks. I couldn't figure out how to finish it. Then one day I decided I'm just
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going to finish it and the hell with it. Let's see what a, you know, and it thing is like. And I,
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this isn't so bad. Did a lot of editing. I probably edited it in nine, ten times. But in the end,
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I said I'll give it another try. In the next book, I finished them three months. So it just
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seemed like the next chapter since I retired. I decided that this would be my little hobby and
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it's been coming a little bit more than that. It's become a passion of mine.
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Great. Well, that's fantastic. I think that's it, isn't it? It's the confidence. You suddenly
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thought, okay, I could get through the first one and I thought it was going to be a waterfall. But now,
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get into it, right? Yeah, exactly. Okay, well, let's start with your latest book then. Your latest book,
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something about Martin was recently released as an ebook, right? I mean, what inspired you to write
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this story? I mean, what was the starting point for the characters or the situation? I wanted to tell
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story about a gay man getting old, what it looks like, what it feels like. I suppose in some ways,
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my story is about, my story about Martin is a sort of preview of my own life. Of course,
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there's no instruction manual and warranties of definitely expired by the timing life. But
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something about Martin is about Martin Riley, who is 89 grieving the loss of Tony, his long
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lifetime partner, who is still, well, he still talks to him every day. Sometimes Martin remembers Tony
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is gone, but other days, he doesn't. So there's a part of the story that he meets a college student named
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Charles and wanders into his life and Martin, something impulsive he decides to ask the kid to come
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and live with him. He has an extra room, want you come and rent it for me.
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When I started this book, I wanted to discover an unlikely friendship between two different men
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from two different generations. Martin has a lifetime of experience and memory, whereas Charlie
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has youth on his side, but he doesn't have very much money or direction.
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Between them, they discover that family isn't necessarily the people that you share at the DNA with.
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But sometimes, a person, you know, it's my dog shaking, sorry. Sometimes it's a person who shows up
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when you least expect it. There are several twists in the story. I wanted to show
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that older people can have special talents. And in this case, Martin, he just happens to be a
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whistler. And not just every day whistler, but happens to be a ambient whistler. I guess it's important
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for me to tell a story that doesn't treat us like we've reached the end of the story. You know,
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we're still there. We still fall in love. We still make mistakes, need companionship.
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Don't need to make connections along the way. I guess getting older doesn't make us less human.
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It just gives us more material to work with. That's true, isn't it? I think that's the interesting
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point about getting older, actually. But you mentioned how old was Martin with 89, did you say?
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He starts at 89. There's a big birthday party where he turns 90 to surprise party. I don't want to
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give too much away, but he ends up showing his friend Charlie and everyone else out. What kind of
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wasp for he really is when he ends up whistling at his birthday at a special party.
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Right. I mean, that's quite amazing. Whistling is in whistling with his lips, right?
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Yeah, whistling. Nothing clever about it, right? It's whistling. No, I know you mean, yeah,
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over here in England. It's kind of a quirky, quirky, you know, I don't know where I just was dreaming
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about it one day and ended up making it part of the storyline. It's really, it's very tender and it's
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very heartwarming. Again, I don't want to give too much away. I think you should read the book because
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several people tell me it was a gut punch, but in a good way. And one of my friends said,
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it's the first book I've ugly cried with, cried to in a long, long time. So it's, it does push some
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emotional buttons. Ugly cried. Like it. Like it. Okay. And you've also finished another book, which I
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understand is your longest one so far. I mean, you completed what Snow Clones. It's just an interesting
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title. I mean, what can you read your readers expect from this particular upcoming book then?
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Yes, I finished it, but I'm still going through a lot of editing. I've been told by
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publicers that it is kind of long. And, you know, there are some parts I want to
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streamline a little bit. But you have to imagine the future in 2050 where humanity is starting to run
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out of people. Women are disappearing. Wildlife has basically vanished. AI intelligence has taken
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over the workforce. And the human race is staring extinction in their face. Naturally, someone
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decides the sensible solution is to start being people. What could possibly go wrong, right?
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Snow Clones follows Eric Gunderson, born through an experimental clonk program and raised in Texas.
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But he's unaware of his truth about his, he's not unaware of the truth about his origins.
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And tele turns 18. 18 has all sorts of twists in his life. He eventually meets someone named Andy
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Mueller, who is his ex-exhaaptenetic twin. It's just happened, Stan. They bumped together in
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Colorado on the ski slopes. Eric is a water pole player at the time, but Andy Mueller is trying to
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convince him that he could become a champion skier. The two are identical twins by genetic code,
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but they are opposite in almost every other way. Eric's junior year from Water Polo ends up taking
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into the ski slopes of Aspen and Brechtich, and also in Chilean andes, where he ends up becoming
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the world's fastest bear in breaking the world record at 160 miles per hour. Through the book,
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he eventually becomes more confident in skiing and his coach, his mentor and his competitor is his
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friend Andy, his twin. And they compete together in Norway for the in the Olympics in 2050.
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But beneath this sci-fi fiction and ice-peed skiing, a story, a story about identity.
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What makes us who we are? Is it our DNA, our upbringing, our choices of people who we love,
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who love us? That's where Jose Rojas is a Chilean, then enters the picture. Jose offers Eric something
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that Andy could never give him the kind of love that doesn't depend about winning or depends on
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breaking records. Or being the most extraordinary person, it just ends up being somebody who loves you
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for who you are. Yes, this book is my longest so far, but I needed to give it room to explore
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a big complicated world while keeping the story grounded in a very human relationship.
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You could say I went slightly beyond the boy meets boy plot. So in Snowclones,
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it helps to understand that genetics can only take you so far. You must have potential,
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but you can't manufacture determination, discipline, or the willingness to work harder than everyone
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else. Generally, I say that you can't put greatness in a P-treatish and expect it to come out ready
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for a gold medal. That part is up to you. It's amazing if you could though, right? Or if we could.
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I should say, but I guess that comes from your sports coaching background, which we'll talk about
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in a bit. Because that's quite interesting, but I'm not surprised. I'm intrigued, I think, because
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of the cloning aspect and all of the sci-fi angles on that, sounds really interesting, actually,
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if you think about it, because I was wondering until you said whether they were identical in looks as well,
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how did you handle the fact that they bumped into each other in a pretty much public place, I presume?
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Yes. He was up with his best friend and he was going to the University of Colorado in Boulder.
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Up to the ski slopes and they bumped in. He starts looking at somebody that they happen to be having
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a gay ski competition on the slopes. And he looks at this guy who's coming down in the slopes in
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his speedo and he goes, "I looks a lot like me." And then he starts to stop him sort of on the slopes
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and understand that Andy, I'm sorry, Eric, I'm thinking of your name Chris, I was almost saying
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to say, "Eric, he hasn't skied before." So he ends up falling at this guy's feet and then he
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look at each other and he's just like, "Are you stalking me?" And he's like stumbling over this.
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And they meet and it becomes a, let's get to know each other type of situation and it offers
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an opportunity for him to, Andy took to try to convince him to get into skiing. Why? Because he wants
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to have somebody to mentor and Andy ends up being a very complex character who ends up being totally
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opposite of Eric. Eric wants to love and Andy wants the next best thing that's out there.
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That is interesting. I wonder what would happen if I was in the supermarket and I bumped into,
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"Well, I saw somebody look like me." I'd probably run that actually to be fair, but
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no, I think that's great. Okay, well, thank you. Well, I can imagine that, what you'd want to do is
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just to write that as extensively as possible, really, I think, wouldn't you? Because that's a big
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world. You've put in various sports, you've put in the Gays Hub plots or major plots, whichever way
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that turns out for you. You've looked at all of that. It's not surprised. Yeah, but good luck with
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that one. I'm sure that we'll be interested to hear about that. But another thing that you're also
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doing at the same time, you're a busy guy, you got to, is you're also returning to the Game
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Mafia series, right? You're working on the final book in the Game Mafia trilogy, tentatively titled
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"The Mafia Ending." I mean, how can you see that series closing? Well, first of all, you have to
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explain the first two books. The first one is "Not Your Father's Mafia," where basically that's the boy,
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the characters are Tito and Rico. Tito is the Mafia's families, basically, heir to the King pin
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position. And then the second story, the second book, it's my big fat Mafia family,
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is a story about the wedding, which the ending of the first book ends up with him proposing,
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which by the way, Rico was in the second book, he's no longer, but he was a FBI agent who was
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assigned to look into the "Babarati Mafia" family, which happened to be
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he stumbled on Grindr and met Tito there, and he didn't know until the day he got his dossier,
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the assiatician said, "You are to investigate and infiltrate this family." And it was sort of
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kind of a situation where he met this guy, he already knew him, he was already having feelings
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towards him, and now he was supposed to be sort of the FBI agent to get whatever he could
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put on him. So anyhow, I have to bring this to a close without making the reader feel unsatisfied
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with the storylines progression. The trilogy, you have an obligation to the characters,
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as well as the readers who have followed them throughout the story.
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I've decided to end this story on the island of Sicily in Italy where the old-world Mafia,
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the Italian Mafia began, and where the American Mafia's connection of new ideas collide.
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I'm not exactly sure where, how I'm going to end the story now, but it's a, I see it being as a
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satisfying conclusion while remaining two to the characters. Tito and Rico's choices have consequences,
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those ends need attention to love and humor, need to progress, the ending needs to feel earned rather
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than convenient. I want to leave the readers with something to chew on, real life doesn't, and
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neither should fiction. I guess sometimes the most satisfying conclusion is simply
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knowing that the story has reached a place that it always was headed to.
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If that makes any sense. No, no, it does. Rather than just walking off into the sunset,
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or maybe there is walking off into the sunset, actually, we think about it. If it's been heading
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in that direction where people are getting together and being happy. That's really interesting.
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You're clearly passionate about all of these projects. It's lucky you're retired because I don't think
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you really would be able to get the time now. I just have these dreams and I dream a lot of it up
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and then put on paper. Sometimes it works. Sometimes I step it in dream again. It's just been, in fact,
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this book was a first book, not your father's Mafia, was a first book I had published.
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It was actually a contest where you're supposed to use Mafia as sort of the main crux of the story
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and put your own spin on it. I decided to do where a Mafia kingpin's son ends up falling in love with
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the FBI agent that happens to save his life and you have to read the story to understand that.
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It's been something that pushed me out of my comfort zone to do. I've ended up finished that book
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in about a month, just a little over a month. It was only 40,000 words. It was shorter,
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but my second one doubled to 80,000 and this may double again. I don't know. We'll see.
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So far, I've got a few chapters in and it's again, I'm trying to pull everything together. It's
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satisfying for not only the characters but also the readers. Well, at least it shows you care.
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You're taking that much time to make sure that everything is there for your readers. As you say,
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this is an obligation to characters, isn't it? I think that's another thing. There's another
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part of your work that I'd like to explore with that. It feels very personal to your generation.
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Through books like "Pushed Out" of the closet without a parachute and coming out in paradise,
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you're exploring the LGBTQ+ experiences. Why is it important to share the stories of older
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gay men? Other experiences you worry could be lost if your generation doesn't tell its own stories?
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Well, in today's political atmosphere, people understand that
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suddenly we didn't materialize when St. Sex marriages became legal. We had lies before. The world
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decided they were prepared to acknowledge us. Many older gay men grew up in a time when being honest
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who you are would cost you your job, maybe your family, your friends, and maybe your own safety.
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We learned how to enter a room and we entered it. Which part of our lives we could discuss
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and which needed to be edited out of the conversation. Some of us spent years pretending
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that we lived with roommates, that were actually our partners, which led to interesting
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discussions about who to leave in what room and what bed. But then we were blindsided in the 80s
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early 90s with the AIDS I think to make. I personally, in many others, I've lost most of our friends.
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It became a point where family was more chosen family.
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Care for one another, we buried people we loved while the world debated whether we deserved sympathy.
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The hard time. I wanted to share this with the younger generation. I mean, they know about it,
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but they don't really, when you read a story in the book, you get more of a sense of what you go
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through than just talking about it. I'm delighted that the younger LGBT, LGBT,
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Q, us, people have the opportunities they have today. I'm not interested in romanticizing the
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bad old days living in a closet was not charming historical feature and discriminating did not
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build character. It caused pain. I don't know. That's, I guess, that's freedom. Freedom's
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that we enjoy. We're not simple, simply delivered at our doorsteps. It was free shipping.
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People fought for many of the rights that we have today and just wanted to share that. I think
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that's important. It seems to be drowned out with today's politics and book bams and
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taking any reference of us out of the museums and Smithsonian's, et cetera. We had a complicated
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book or, I want to say upbringing, but they were complicated times. Not that they're more simple now,
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they seem to be going backwards, but we're still writing our own history. I just want to be in a way
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a little part of that. I think even today there's a coming out process for a lot of people, but it's
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the disability that we have on TVs and sitcoms and, you know, I'm trying to think of, you know,
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glee and some of the other thing that the younger kids would have saw that they saw a gay
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person in a positive light. We didn't have that growing up. It was always in a negative light. It was
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always the boys in the band. They were alcoholics or something was wrong with them. You wouldn't find
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normal people in normal situations as you did as we did. But today they have that visibility and I
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think that's important for them and that helps them a lot in a lot of ways.
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No, absolutely. Well, again, we were starting to run out of time, unfortunately, but we still
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got some time to talk about your sports experience really because you spend years involved in LGBTQ+
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sports and supporting people affected by HIV and AIDS, as you mentioned. I mean, how much of those
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experiences have shaped what you write about now, not just that historical part and making sure,
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well, actually, I say not just, but yes, actually, do weaving in all of the history into the fiction,
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basically, that must be what you do. But I mean, how is it the sport? Obviously, you're writing about
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water polo, I think, and also skiing, right? Well, I was a water polo player in a swimmer.
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I was played nationally and I was the most valuable player in high school. I had to play for
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Newman who was the Olympic, well, I wasn't Olympic coach, but he groomed more Olympic athletes.
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I ended up playing for him at UCI University of California at Irvine and he grew more of the players
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for the Olympics. In fact, I played with half of the Olympic team of 1980. I'm sorry, 1984, because I
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quit water polo two years afterwards. I didn't stay in other four years because we boycotted in 1980.
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So I wasn't able to be part of the Olympic team, but half of my co-water polo players ended up going
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to the Olympics. I figured, Roa, you know, many other crews who was a goalie. It was a funny story,
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is that I had braces when I was in college. I had gotten them at an older age. My parents couldn't
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afford them, but I got them as I was lifeguarding, I started earning more money and I was practicing at
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UCI. And a crew is one of the biggest players at water polo from the US team. I think it was like
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270 pounds, 6'7" and I was guarding him and he shoved his elbow, boom, right into my
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and I had a bridge in my brace that was pulling the teeth apart and had a spring in there. Anyhow,
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the wiring went through my side of my cheek and sticking out and I had to do an emergency gig
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to my orthodontist to fix it. And all didn't know my coach was like, "Get back in the water,
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get back in, keep playing." And I'm here like, with wires sticking out of my mouth.
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A lot of what happened to me is in my books. Yes, it's fiction, but a lot of it is
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situations that happened to me or around me that I saw. So there's parts of me in all the books that
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I write. I have mentioned only about the age, but I was part of Ground Zero in that time because I was
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also had a friendship relationship with Rock Hudson, which I wrote about and being pushed out of the
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closet without a parachute. There are so many other people that I met. It's been lovely talking to you
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today. And what I've really actually enjoyed is hearing how your experiences and the stories you
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have and want to tell have really come together like that. Well, there you go, good to thank you very,
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very much for joining me on Author Conversations. And remember, everyone, you will find details
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of Gunther's books and links to his work alongside this interview as well. So I'm Chris Dabs. Thanks for
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watching and I'll see you all next time on Author Conversations. Take care, and Gunther, thank you very,
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